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Estelia Mesiner is a
woman with a mission: to get the rest of her
family out of Colombia and join Estelia and her
two sisters in the States. Estelia moved to the
U.S. with an older sister and went to high school
in Pennsylvania, then moved to Florida. “I got
homesick after being five years in the U.S. and
wanted to go back to Colombia,” Estelia says.
“When I got there it was culture shock. I wasn’t
the little girl daddy could tell what to do
anymore. I was independent.”
Estelia took her
independence and went to architectural school and
then technical school for civil engineering, all
the time staying with a sister in Colombia. She
moved back to the U.S. and worked at a civil
engineering company for five years, drafting road
and architectural plans. She enjoyed the work but
after she had her first child she wanted to have
more control of her time.
She wanted time with
her kids, now 5 and 1, and had a supportive
husband, but still felt a need to work, with the
main goal of getting her family out of Columbia.
Her father had already been kidnapped and killed
there. So far she has brought over her mother and
a sister and her daughter. She has another sister
with two kids to go. “I feel like I’m running
against time because my niece is 17, my nephew 16,
and this is the last year (before they turn 18) to
get them out,” Estelia says.
The effort takes a lot
of time and money and, fortunately, Estalia has
the support and help of her two sisters in the
U.S. Estalia found her niche as well as a way to
earn an income and still have flexible time in
real estate. “It’s something I really, really
enjoy. I believe that if you enjoy doing something
you will always make money at it. I love helping
people find their dream home. I have been very
successful and have won many awards.
“The money I earn is to
make sure I can take care of my family and help
them get a new life. This country is full of
opportunity and if you work hard you will be able
to achieve whatever you want to achieve,” Estelia
says.
Despite a long battle
with rheumatoid arthritis and enduring a hip
replacement, Estelia is committed to helping
others. In the future, she wants to give more
volunteer time to worthy causes and she and her
older sister, who is a doctor, envision going to
poor countries to help the people, especially the
children. She presently is a member of the All
Children’s Hospital Evening Guild and is on call
with the hospital and the Ronald McDonald House to
serve as a translator. |